What if sexy, open, abundant, + trusting were the sensations of being in your natural state, fully alive + present?
I listened to an interview with Sheila Kelly (founder of S-Factor) yesterday, and the idea that as human women the way in which we are designed to move our bodies is a constant mating dance really resonated with me.
Many of the conversations I've been having with clients this week have been about how to eliminate the blocks and walls they've erected to self-protect over the years, based on traumatic things that have happened.
We stiffen up -- in our bodies, in our lives, in our souls, in our minds -- when we experience something that makes us feel unsafe. It's the "freeze or shrink" effect of being the smaller sex in our species (vs. fight or flight).
But when we stiffen in our physical/emotional/mental bodies, and don't do the equal and opposite work to open again, we end up blocking ourselves from receiving the life, the business, the love we TRULY desire.
And we end up feeling anything but sexy, open, abundant, + trusting. And we definitely don't feel fully alive + present.
It's not at all surprising to me that when I have initial consultation sessions with women, they explain the sensation that's brought them to coaching as "feeling like my soul is dying" when they go to work, stay in a relationship/situation that doesn't serve them, or are making choices for their lives based on what others want, instead of tuning in and listening to their inner guidance system.
So how will you MOVE in a feminine way today in the world? How will you choose to show up open and in your natural state of love + trust? How will you cultivate aliveness + presence today? <3
Your natural state is GODDESS.
Love + Light,